Sunday, December 25, 2005


Christmas presents, here we come!
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Andrew's stocking, for those interested.
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Thursday, December 22, 2005


I'd just like to know his thought process. "Ooh, I know, I'll put the Coke bottle as high in the blind as my little arms can reach! That'll be fun."
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Tuesday, December 20, 2005


Found the Halloween candy
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Ow, Dad.
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Monday, December 19, 2005


Horribly out of focus, but all I have right now.
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Thursday, December 15, 2005


Hide-and-seek anyone?
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Tuesday, December 13, 2005


The All-American Boy
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Monday, December 12, 2005


Superstar!

(bet you didn't see this one coming at 5pm CST!)
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Olly Olly Oxen Free!
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Saturday, December 10, 2005


Hoppy and a blanket. Life is good.
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Wednesday, December 07, 2005


In case you were wondering, he is, in fact, 100% genuine.
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Tuesday, December 06, 2005


Peek-A-Boo!
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Monday, December 05, 2005


Oh, heaven! All of these CDs!
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Friday, December 02, 2005


Little boy, big driveway
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Thursday, December 01, 2005

Wednesday, November 30, 2005


We're back! Here's Drew in the tree over Thanksgiving at the Cherry household.
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Sunday, November 13, 2005

And we're off!

To see the wizard? No, to see the family in VA. We'll be back on 11/29. Happy Thanksgiving everyone.

skot

Friday, November 11, 2005


A cow doing yoga with one of its own shank bones?
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Thursday, November 10, 2005


Naked picture!
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Wednesday, November 09, 2005


I really wanted to take Hoppy off of his head so he could breathe. Instead, I took a picture.
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Tuesday, November 08, 2005


Again, I look like a dork, but who's looking at me?
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Saturday, November 05, 2005


Deep concentration
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What a trooper.

We're back from our quickly planned excursion to the pediatric surgery center. Wait, wait, there was no acute trauma or need associated with this visit. Drew was just being tested. You see,....

We had an appointment scheduled last week with the specialist, his first in three months. Drew had been gaining weight relatively steadily (about 0.75 lb per month) and the doctor was starting to get a little more comfortable with his growth (he'd never let us know that, but that's what it seemed like), so he scheduled his next appointment not a month along, but three. We were all prepared to tell the doctor that we weren't coming back to see him, since we have seen the trend in Drew's growth. All went pear-shaped when we actually had Andrew weighed on that visit. Inistead of gaining about 2-2.5 lbs over the previous three months, the scale read a net of -0.5 lbs. Yes, you read that correctly, negative 1/2 pound -- he had lost weight! This was definitely a shock to all of us. At this point I think we all agreed that the endoscopy was necessary. So, about a week or so later, we all packed in the car for an overnight trip to the big city -- Fort Worth (Hurst to be accurate).

To say that Andrew behaved well these last couple days would be a gross understatement. We don't deserve to have a little boy so well-behaved after what he's been put through. We all woke up Thursday morning at about 4:30 (you know it's serious if I'm getting up at 4:30) and headed up to the surgical center. We got there at about 7 and the immediately checked us in and sent us back to the pre-op area. He had all his vitals checked (the blood pressure monitor was hilarious -- he giggled through that), he flirted with all of the nurses, and was told exactly how cute he is. When it came time to perform the procedure, Liz took him into a "separation room." Since we weren't to go into the OR during the operation, they took the two of them into a darkened room, gave Andrew a nasal sedative while he and Liz were cuddling, and when he was totally relaxed and barely alert, the took him into the OR. He spent about 30 minutes in there, during which time they put a camera down his esophagus, place a pH probe near his stomach, and took X-rays to verify the placement of the pH probe. That had to have been the longest, most stressful half hour of my entire life. I thought that I would be able to handle it pretty well, and though I think I did, it was definitely harder that I ever would have imagined.

The doctor came out after about 15 to 20 minutes to discuss the results of the endoscopy and said everything looked fine except a few white spots in Drew's esophagus. That could be a sign of some sort of food allergy, he said, and it would cause the walls of the esophagus to become stiff during eating, leading to him eating less. Those were biopsied along with five other locations and we should have results back in the next two weeks or so. While we were in consultation with the gastroenterologist, they were placing the pH probe. Maybe ten minutes later a volunteer with the hospital ushered us back to where Drew was in step-down recovery, emerging from anesthesia; the worst was over.

Or so we thought. Up until this point, Andrew had barely uttered a peep during any of the tests or procedures; pulse -- pretty cool band-aid sensor, blood pressure -- as I mentioned earlier, tickled, weight -- a ride on a floaty scale, length -- a chance to fall back onto a bed, sedative -- cuddling with mom. As he was coming out of the anesthetic he must have been completely disoriented, confused, uncomfortable, and not to mention seriously hungry because he was in the most hysterical state we have ever seen him in. The nurses kept asking us what would calm him down, but we didn't know; he'd never been like that in the previous 15 months of his life. He had three tubes coming out of him (pH probe, IV fluids, and a pulse monitor), strangers man-handling him, and his arms bound. Apparently, he kept tugging at the IV tube, so they had to restrain his arms with a pair of splints (or in pediatric parlance "no-no's"). Since he was a newborn, Drew has hated having his arms bound. We have never been able to bundle him; not for sleeping, not after bathtime, never. Though they prevented him from pulling at any of the tubes, I think that just sent him further into hysteria. Then the nurses checked the X-ray and found that the pH probe wasn't low enough in his esopagus. Though it didn't hurt, they had to pin Drew down to the bed and pushed the tube further down his throat. I have never heard a more heart-wrenching scream come out of my son than that moment. I didn't know what to do. I just wanted to grab him and take off, but we really do need to find out what's going on. That over, we went back to recovery and tried to get him calmed down.

To try to get him calm, we took one arm out of a splint (the one without the IV) and though it seemed to work a little, he was still screaming. Mind you, this child has not eaten since 8:00pm the night before and it was then about 10:30am. The nurse brought over a popsicle and that seemed to do the trick. He ate almost the whole thing even thought it was his first and then almost fell asleep in Liz's arms while waiting to be discharged.

We left the surgery center with the pH monitor in tow and checked in at the hotel (an AmeriSuites which gives discounts to people who have children undergoing procedures), tried to get Drew to eat something (which must have felt strange with a small tube down the back of his throat), and put him down for a nap. He ate a little, but not enough to really satisfy his empty stomach, but he was exhausted and so were we We were too nervous to get any sleep ourselves. Child safety experts always tell you not to let your small children sleep with anything hanging near the crib since they might strangle themselves and here we were putting Drew down with about three feet of tubing coming out of his nose. He didn't sleep for long, though, and when he woke up we tried to play with him like normal. Now, again, this child hadn't been able to eat in about 15 hours or so and, though he ate a little at about 11:30, we weren't supposed to feed him for four hours. He usually eats about every two to three hours. By the time 2:30 rolled around, he was starving. I held him off as long as I could, but he was so hungry that I let him eat a little early; it won't affect the tests at all, they just need a solid block of time to measure any acid churning up and out of his stomach. This was repeated several times during the day until he couldn't keep his eyes open any longer. We put him to be at about 8:00pm and Liz went to sleep soon thereafter. I stayed up a little while longer and checked on him every few minutes. At about midnight, I was too tired to stay up and went to sleep myself.

Liz woke up at about 4:30 and couldn't get back to sleep for nerves. Andrew and I woke up at about 6:00 and we declare the pH test officially over. We took off all of the tape holding everything in place (about four inches across his upper lip and a small, one square inch piece on his back) which, though painful, held nothing to the experiences of the day before, and swiftly removed the tubing. It was over.

He ate a little breakfast, slept the whole trip home, and played for about an hour at the house until we all got hungry and went out for lunch. He ate a little lunch, fell asleep on the way home, and I was able to get him into his own bed without waking him. Liz and I both crawled into our bed and we all took about a three hour nap this afternoon. When we woke up, Andrew did not stop eating until bathtime! He ate Goldfish crackers constantly all afternoon until dinner time, washed those down with PediaSure and apple juice. For dinner, he had applesauce and mashed potatoes (which he fed himself), ham, cheerios, green beans, milk, and chocolate brownie. If he ate like that all the time, we wouldn't have had to got through all of this!

There is no way we can possibly have expected how well the little guy handled all of this. From all of the pre-op tests through the operation and after he handled it all with aplomb. Even the hysteria coming out of the anesthesia, though no fun, should have been expected. We asked so much of him this week and he delivered extra. We don't deserve him.

He's down to bed now and shouldn't wake until morning. I'm off to work while he and Liz relax for the first day in the last three. I am hopeful that we won't have to do this again, but I'm afraid that the doctor will want to verify that whatever treatment we do is effective and request another test. It should only be the endoscopy which was the less stressful of the two tests, but still no fun.

Unfortunately, we forgot our camera and though we don't actually want to remember this ordeal, we should have taken some pictures. If I can get my scanner working again, I'll post some pictures of Andrew from the inside.

Later,
skot

Wednesday, November 02, 2005


Have you ever surfed a hippo before?
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Tuesday, November 01, 2005


Happy Halloween!

Several pictures tonight since his costume was so incredibly cute.
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Monday, October 31, 2005


Apparently Hoppy Kangaroo has a new home.
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Thursday, October 27, 2005


Ahoy, mateys!
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Grammy will be proud.
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Wednesday, October 26, 2005


Playing on the slide
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Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Monday, October 24, 2005

Friday, October 21, 2005


Trying to stand on the ocelot.
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Thursday, October 20, 2005


Still not interested in the ocelot.
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Wednesday, October 19, 2005


Not interested in the ocelot at all.
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Tuesday, October 18, 2005

Monday, October 17, 2005


Go Speed Racer
Go Speed Racer
Go Speed Racer, Go!

(not the most flattering shot of either of us, but that's not the point, now, is it?)
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Friday, October 14, 2005


Pretty soon I'll have him mowing as well as weeding.
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Thursday, October 13, 2005


Security tiger?
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Wednesday, October 12, 2005


We almost have the spoon down.
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Tuesday, October 11, 2005


The best apple ever
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Monday, October 10, 2005


The apple's almost as big as he is
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Friday, October 07, 2005


A story before bedtime
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Thursday, October 06, 2005


Gettin' the haircut.
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Wednesday, October 05, 2005

. . . and one more thing

In his quest for independence, Andrew also stopped taking a bottle at bedtime at the end of September. Much like nursing, suddenly it just wasn't working for him anymore. The transition hasn't gone as smoothly as giving up nursing, but we're getting a system down. A couple of books and then bed. Unfortunately, teething is making this process difficult, since his only symptoms is not sleeping well.

I think that finally catches every thing up to date.

liz

Banner day!

Wow! Two major accomplishments in one day. Today, Andrew not only had his first hair cut, he took his first real steps.

This afternoon we went to a local kids' consignment shop where they have someone on staff who cuts childrens' hair. I was really impressed with her ability to cut in a straight line while Drew's head was bobbing around like a bouy (a "bouncing baby bouy" if you will). He looks so much older now. He's beginning to look like a little boy and not a baby. I'm not too happy about that, but Liz is taking it pretty hard.

Then this evening Andrew wanted to do nothing more than walk around and around and around and around and around and around and around the house. After about 30 minutes, my back was starting to get tired from ambling hunched over. We were just about to attempt to stop (he tends to get somewhat obsessive about these things) so I decided to walk in front of him and let go of his hands. Usually he takes a half-step, gets nervous, and drops to the ground. But today he decided that he was going to try to get to me. Much to my surprise, he took three or four steps before he reached me and fell into my arms. Pretty cool! We did this several times, the biggest excursion being about six or seven steps, when Liz came by to take over. They walked around and around and around and around and around and around the house for a little while before Drew got bored with the circuit and wanted to hold his stuffed bunny. Unfortunately, his bunny was by the bow window and he was by the couch, holding Liz's hand (about a three foot distance). Well, being the expert walker he now is, he just took the few steps over and dropped on top of the bunny.

It must be the haircut that gives him new confidence. Either that, or it's my reaffirming presence.

skot

Several shots today. Two of the old Andrew and two of the new, improved little boy Andrew.
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Tuesday, October 04, 2005

Not a baby anymore

Well, I promised more excitement to come and boy can I deliver.

Walking. Andrew wasn't really interested in walking until right about the time his grandparents got here. Then we got out his hippo (thanks Amy used to be Porterfield). He has this blue hippo that he can push and walk behind. He loves it. At first he was content to just go around the living room, but that didn't last for long. Now we spend large parts of the day walking the loop - through the dining room, down the hall, through the living room, and back to the dining room. Sometimes we go crazy and reverse the order. If he's not using the hippo he wants to do this holding on to someone's hands. I say hands, but about two days ago, after a little coaxing, he started using just one hand. Now he even likes to go down to the mailbox with just one hand. This event made the neighbors day. I wasn't in the house for more than three minutes before Doris called to tell me they saw us through the window and thought it was just adorable. So far the only steps he's taken by himself have been unintentional when he's reaching for a toy or wants to go from the couch to the toy chest.

Of course learning to walk has meant that I had to break down and buy him shoes. I was leary because socks were never a big hit and he wasn't used to having anything on his feet. Well, thanks to the fact that he had just learned where his feet were, he was really excited to learn that shoes go on his feet. Sometimes, he won't leave you alone until you put shoes on him, so he'll run around the house in a diaper and shoes - definitely modern chic. There have been a few catches in buying him shoes though. Largely it stems from the fact that my child is a pygmy. Because his feet are so small, I've had a hard time finding shoes that will fit him and bend. Most of the shoes for his size feet are just decorative. They tend to make him clumsy since they aren't flexible. I finally found him a pair to teva like sandals that work really well. Now we all have shoes that look alike. skot lined them all up one night and I must admit its really weird to see those small little shoes next to mine.

Standing which kind of goes hand-in-hand with walking is still a little sketchy. He'll stand by himself, but doesn't really see the benefit to it.

Andrew has two favorite activities right now (besides walking in circles). First is his shape sorter. We still have to help him find the right hole, but he loves to put the shapes in the ball. Since realizing the the shapes are good for more than just chewing on, this toy has become a favorite. If he wants me to play with him, he'll crawl through the house with it. If he just wants attention, then he brings me a book. That's right he loves his books. He'll go into his room and sit for thirty minutes for more just playing with his books. He pulls them all off his bookshelf and then sits in the big pile and flips through pages. He has several favorites, but Jane's Animal Expedition and anything by Eric Carle are the best. These are the types of books that he can lift flaps or are tactile. He's so gentle with them that we can even trust him with paper books and not just board books.

Saturday, August 20th, Andrew's first tooth arrived. He was drinking water out of my glass and I heard a tink-tink noise as he chewed on it. Sure enough, I felt a tooth in there. Most kids love to show off their teeth, but Drew refuses. You hardly ever see it, but I know its there. The second popped out on September 26th. The top gum looks and feels like one will come out at any minute, but so far nothing.

Just to prove how grown up he is, two important things happen in September. Andrew had his first playdate and he started staying in the nursery at church. In early September Ashlyn came over to play one afternoon. Things went well, even if Andrew seemed a little awed by the whirlwind that is Ashlyn. Since she's 2 1/2 months older than Drew and has been walking for a while, he was really interested in just watching her. As for the nursery, after me staying in there with him one Sunday and skot the next he took to it like a duck to water. Of course there are usually more workers than kids when he's in there, so he gets lots of attention and all the holding he wants. The workers all say that he's fine and they don't have any problems with him. Even last week when he was crying when I went to pick him up, they swore he had just started. I'm not sure if they are just trying to be nice or if he really is fine, but I think its good for him regardless. I think leaving him was actually harder for skot than it has been for me. Sunday mornings used to be their time to cuddle and catch up since skot was working such long hours. Now Drew won't nap with him anymore and doesn't have a problem being left for a little while. It was a blow to skot.

My big blow came today. We took Andrew for his first haircut. skot (of all people) had to talk me into it. I kept saying I wasn't ready for him to look like a little boy yet. I still haven't gotten over it. He looks so much older. For his part, Andrew handled it with aplomb. He grinned and smiled and acted perfect. the whole time I was trying not to put him up and run out screaming. He's not my baby anymore, now he's a little boy.

liz

...and to the other side.
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Monday, October 03, 2005

Reflections on one year

OK, so I'm more than a little over due in updating and there is a lot to report.

Shortly after my last post in July, we took our first road trip as a family. Definitely a different tone than our trips of old. A lot more stopping and down time in the hotel. We drove up to Kansas City. Yes, it was to go to a MLS game, but no DC wasn't playing. The trip up was miserable, but that had nothing to do with Andrew. He was great. Everything else went wrong though. Once we got to KC, we had a great time. The game was fun, even though Andrew was pretty tired by the end. The next day we went to the KC zoo. We only got to see a part of it since it was really hot that weekend and we were all a little tired. We went to the Australian exhibit, since he can't see that at our local zoo. The exhibit was really cool and you got to walk right up to the kangaroos. Those and the aviary were a big hit with the little guy. In the end we even bought Drew a stuffed kangaroo. Hoppy Kangaroo is currently a favorite comfort toy.

After the trip to KC, we only had a few weeks to get ready for a little boy to turn one. Its been almost two months since he turned one and I'm still not ready. To prepare himself for being one, Andrew stopped nursing. I had been nursing him at night before bed and he decided that he was done with that shortly after returning from KC. Unlike, in May when we forced him to take a bottle, we were both ready this time and the transition went smoothly.

Then came the birthday. Both sets of Grandparents came to visit for about a week (staggered slightly). We punctuated the weekend with a trip to the zoo, two cakes (Aunt Wanda made the cool catepillar cake and I made a chocolate one), two days of presents, portraits, hand imprints, and a trip to the children's museum. I don't think exhausted is the right word for how I felt at the end. There was also a checkup with his regular doctor. Weighing in at 16lbs 3oz, standing 28 inches tall, we have a healthy young boy. He's not a baby anymore.

We also made another trip up to Cook Children's to see the specialist in August. skot and I were all ready to do battle with the doctor about a feeding tube and it was as if now that he's one who cares. He basically said that since he's reached the magic one, there are more things we can do with his diet to try and get him to grow (read - gain more weight). The nutritionist was very disappointed to discover that his favorite foods were fruits and beans. Apparently, we are supposed to put him on the McDonald's diet. We've been trying to get him to eat more fatty foods, but most days the vast majority of what he eats is fruit. He does love his milk though. He'll drink that all day and never complain. Some days its the only way I know he's gotten any protein at all.

This is getting really long, so I will try and post about September tomorrow. Stay tuned for teething and other exciting developments.

liz

Lounging during dinner
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